name

when i was young, i have always hated my name.

because it sounds like a guy's name

and it wasnt common for a girl to have the name of ''Kai Wen''

yes, mostly guys are called Kai Wen,

but in chinese writing/characters, its different.

i always thought it didnt sound ''girly'' enough.

i only started to appreciate my name when i found out the meaning few years back.

and people also complimented on it.

i wanna thank my parents for giving me such a nice name,

as well as a meaningful one.

凯文 ---- is a guy's name and this is how its like in chinese writing.

凯雯 ----- this is my name and its for a girl.

the only difference is the ''Wen'' unless

their parents want another type of ''Kai''

there are many different types and of course different meaning.

well, i was never proud of my name when i was younger.

how foolish can i get.

only when recently i heard people asking for my name,

and which character,

and they said its a nice name.

i was surprised. i never knew my name sounded so nice.

basically, ''Kai'' means success in chinese.

''Wen'' simply means the patterns(?) of the clouds.

i found this online:

名凯雯的女子，想必在出生的时候很顺利，

她的出生伴随着父母千辛万苦的耕耘，喜得公主，

犹如打了胜仗一样开心。生命的凯歌已经奏响，

希望女儿在和谐优美的乐曲声中成长，长得就像天空中的祥云一样美丽动人。

by the name of Kai Wen(for girls), its a smooth delivery during birth,

she was born along with the hardships of her parents,

like a princess to them,

as if they had won a battle.

the victory song of life have been played,

hoping that their daughter will grow through a harmonious

and beautiful music, looking like the beautiful clouds in the sky.

found a reason to love my name more.

many already said its a nice name.

my parents chose the right name for me and i'm proud of it :)